How To Tell If A Sugar Baby Likes You
Funny thing is, as a sugar daddy, you still have a little trouble chasing girls. Maybe you met your sugar baby at an event, or you followed each other on Instagram, or you chatted on some sugar baby dating sites. Maybe you've had a few conversations; Maybe you just said a few words at a party, but... She is so beautiful, so cute, so funny, you can't stop thinking about her, even a little wonder: does she like you?
Man, I know it's a very helpless feeling, because if you're not sure if your feelings are going to be answered, then you feel very vulnerable. For example, what if she doesn't like you or she says no?
Look, first of all, rejection isn't the end of the world. This is a normal part of a relationship and has nothing to do with your value as a person or self-esteem! But once you learn how to catch people's social cues, dating -- or flirting, or chatting -- becomes much easier. By social cues, I mean subtle signs, such as body language and conversational patterns, that help you understand how others are feeling. I promise, sugar babies aren't that mysterious! Here are some simple tips to tell you if a sugar baby likes you:
She often mentions your name in front of her friends
When you have a crush on someone, you can't help but mention their name. Saying their names out loud makes you feel good! Your potential sugar baby probably won't say it in front of you, which is necessary -- it's a little weird to say someone's name over and over again -- but I bet she'll mention it when she's talking to her friends or their friends. If she seems to like saying your name and she introduces it to your friends... She must really like you, man. Trust me on this.
She'll try to start or continue a conversation with you
So far, if you haven't met, you've talked a little and gotten to know who the other person is. When she says something like "it reminds me of you" -- whether it's a song, a funny emoji, or a text message sent around 10 p.m. -- she's looking for a way to talk to you. Not only will she take notes of things that interest you, which is very thoughtful, but she'll also try to bring it up in conversation. That's great! If you're interested, do the same thing -- mention things she might be interested in and casually mention them in conversation. This is a great way to show that you are also interested in her.
She tries to understand your interests
Quite simply, if you like someone, you will also try to understand their interests. So, if a sugar baby makes an effort to learn about your interests, such as getting you tickets to your favorite band, cheering for your favorite team, or watching your favorite sci-fi movie. It's not her thing, but you can bet she likes you anyway. Maybe she doesn't like what you like, but if she does, she stands up for you. Because when you like someone, that's what you do -- you try to do what they're interested in, what they love to do.
She turns her body toward you when she talks to you
This one is important, and a sugar baby's body language can tell you a lot, especially if you've been dating for a while. It's subtle, but you can definitely feel it. If she's constantly turning to you when she's talking to you, opening her posture to you, and even wanting to touch you -- for example, pretending to accidentally touch your elbow or shoulder, or pretending to fall over you when you open the car door for her -- she's definitely into you. When I feel happy and comfortable with someone, I open my shoulders to them instead of crossing my arms or turning around, as I do when I don't really enjoy talking to someone. If a girl likes you and feels comfortable with you, you can tell by her body language and her posture.
She told her friends about you
Yes, guys, it's true: we do tell our friends everything. But if we are not interested or unsure of someone, we tend to keep a low profile until our feelings become clearer. So when we really like someone, you can bet your friends know. If her friends say she talks about you a lot... Ding. She likes you, man.
She said so
In fact, most sugar babies are very frank, when she likes you, she will say it directly. If she really just thinks of you as a friend, she'll speak up and not give you the wrong impression. But on the other hand, if she likes you, she'll let you know. If a girl says she likes you, guess what, she means it! Not only does she like you, but she has the confidence to let you know. This is amazing.
She laughed at your joke
Sure, when a sugar baby likes you, her mood will fluctuate and she will laugh at your jokes. Even if you don't think of yourself as a real favorite joker, when you really charm a girl, she will smile. A smile is our way of letting you know that we like you and think you're cute: if she cracks around a lot of jokes, makes you laugh? Yes. She likes you.
She asks you questions
It may seem obvious, but trust me it makes some sense. Because when you like someone, you're interested in what they're saying and want to talk to them. You want to know what their views and interests are and what they're doing, so you'll ask some questions. In the same way, when a sugar baby asks you a question -- even if it seems mundane at first, like "how was your day" or "what did you have for dinner" -- trust me, she's trying to get to know you! You can also show interest in her by asking about her life if you want.
So, now you know -- here are some ways to tell if a sugar baby likes you. With this knowledge, always be curious, thoughtful, considerate, and don't be afraid to put yourself out there! If you have any questions, check out Google, where there are plenty of sugar babies dating websites to teach you how to date a sugar baby.